Is Being Bored Really Such A Bad Thing For Our Children

Is Being Bored Really Such A Bad Thing For Our Children

We have all been there haven’t we, as soon as the ‘I’m bored’ cries begin we instinctively pop the TV on or put YouTube on the tablet for them. I bet most of us are guilty of this, but by doing this, by trying to stop the boredom, are we actually suppressing our children’s imaginations? Is being bored really such a bad thing for our children?

A study conducted by BIC® as part of its Young Artist Award found that 69% of the 1000 parents asked, dreaded their children saying ‘I’m bored’ which on average is said a whopping 122 times a month, that’s 1500 a year! Research also revealed that children have been spending just 3 hours away from their screens per day, as a mum of a teenage boy I can very much believe this. I spent all summer encouraging him to try and get outside with his friends to no avail, apparently going out is too boring to them. When I was younger me and my friends were outside pretty much from the moment we got up until it was time for bed.

In response to the research findings, renowned child education consultant Dr Martin Stephen said that “boredom is a brilliant platform from which children learn to use their imaginations…It is important that we continue to develop core skills such as drawing and writing. Drawing and writing with a pen aren’t old fashioned and out-dated – they’re proved state-of-the-art and affordable boosters to the child’s body and brain: the ultimate fertiliser for the imagination.”

Experts believe we should be doing more to encourage boredom in our children and I have to say I agree. I grew up in a fairly strict household, watching TV was very limited, I would be allowed maybe an hour at most. Instead I was encouraged to play outside, colour or read. As an only child I had to rely on my imagination quite a lot, I used to love writing stories, drawing and making up games to play. As I now make a living from writing, I have to say I’m very grateful for all those times I was allowed to get bored.

65% of the parents interviewed for the study felt guilty about the amount of screen time their children have. I have to admit, since having Poppy the amount of TV Ava watches has definitely increased. When you have 2 little ones a distraction for the older one is a godsend however I have also noticed a negative change in Ava’s behaviour since she has been allowed to watch more. She became naughtier and seemed unable to occupy herself when the TV wasn’t on. This is the reason I have gone back to limiting screen time for her. Ava thrives off getting creative, she loves making things and will happily sit drawing and colouring, her attitude is so much better and her ability to play alone is a great help when I need to focus on her baby sister.

My go to boredom busters aka imagination boosters

  • Drawing/Painting/Creating with playdoh
  • Reading
  • Doing puzzles
  • Going out for a walk
  • Singing and dancing
  • I like to rotate the toys Ava plays with too and incorporate some household objects to allow her to use her imagination. It’s amazing what suddenly becomes a bridge or a slide.

BIC® have been encouraging children all over the country to get creative in a competition to have their artwork put up onto public billboards. Bic’s UK and Ireland product manager Rebacca Huda says “It’s challenging to consider boredom as a positive thing, but I think we’re all aware that taking a bit of time away from constant noise and activity, has a positive effect. It’s good to be able to let the mind wander and through our competition, we’ve seen that kids in the UK have amazing imaginations”

The competition has received hundreds of entries for 5-11 year old children from across the UK and Republic of Ireland for BIC® KIDS 2018 Young Artist Award, with the regional finalists being put forward to a public vote which will crown the 2018 winner.

This post is in no way judging anyone for their use of screen time, we all parent in a way that is best for our families. I would be interested to know if you agreed with this post however? Do you feel guilty about the amount of screen time your child has? 

 

This is a collaborative post

2 Comments

  1. Luna
    October 10, 2018 / 7:37 am

    Really good article and one we all need to think about as I personally believe we are all guilty of spending too much time on our screens and the kids pick it up from us. I think its why everyone has such a short attention span these days as we are often only ‘half’ doing things. Even when watching TV we sit on our phones and dont really pay full attention to whats on yet another screen. Netflix and chill is all well and good if you are snuggled under a blanket sharing physical contact.

    Its rather shocking just how many times we check our phones and sit in silence. The cardinal sin is when you spend longer on your phone in the bedroom than ‘time’ with your partner. Both of you sat on your phones with no physical contact just scrolling away. I started to mix it up and every time I thought about checking my phone I leaned over and kissed my partner. When you find you are constantly kissing them to the point of harassment you start to notice just how often you were doing it.

    Less screen time and more physical interactions are sorely needed for all parties involved be it physical contact with adults or physically playing with objects and using your imagination as a child.

  2. Kristan
    October 25, 2018 / 6:25 am

    Some great points, everything these days seems to be based on minimal effort & people just can’t be bothered to do things like they used to. They would rather hand a child a device to keep them quiet than interact with them.

    Same goes with adults, people have become selfish & just don’t put the time & effort into each other that they used to as everyone is lost behind a screen & interactions are limited & often “timed” as everyone is in a rush to get things done.

    Life is short & people just don’t appreciate each other as much anymore or put any more effort than they have to keep others & themselves happy. Everyone needs to slow down & remember time is precious and you should live every moment & put in that extra effort for each other.

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